This is a reflection on the Mass readings of the day.
Gratitude is the awareness that we have received more than that to which we are entitled, remembrance of the person who has given it to us, and expression of appreciation to that person.
We have all had the experience of really wanting something, receiving it as a gift from someone, and rejoicing more in the thing itself than the giver–forgetting all too soon the giver’s thoughtfulness and generosity.
Lasting gratitude appears as a rare virtue. In today’s gospel, only one of the cleansed lepers–given a truly amazing, life-changing gift–returns to give thanks. The others might have been appreciative for a moment, but they have soon forgotten the giver, and perhaps the fact that their new, healed condition is a gift.
St. Paul points out one of the key effects of permanent, ongoing gratitude. In recognizing that the redemption we have experienced is a free gift from a Giver, and not some achievement of our own, we are able to treat others–including those not living the Christian life–with respect and esteem. We recognize in them that their worth is defined, not by any defect we may perceive in them, but by how God cherishes them, in His great desire to give them the gift He has given to us.
When we clearly perceive God’s intense, unmerited, and unconditional love for us, and are grateful for it, we can see how He loves others in the same way, and learn to treat them accordingly.
Ideas for conversation with the Lord: Ask Jesus for the gift of persistent, undimming gratitude for His gifts. Ask Him to send His Holy Spirit to give you the same love for sinners–that is, all humans–that He has. Ask Him to fill you with esteem for every fellow person on earth that corresponds to the unconditional intensity with which He loves every person.
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